‘Single’- it’s often considered as negative but to be honest it’s as good as being with someone. Because let’s be frank; life is not just being in love, there is more to it. Trust us; in fact when you are single you analyze life more than ever. Here are just a few perks that you can enjoy when you are single.
Freedom
We all have either experienced or seen how suffocating a relationship can get at times. In fact the reason for most of the relationships to fall apart is lack of space. But when you are single you are a free bird. Do what you wish to nobody is questioning like a reporter- ‘What? Where? When? Why? Who? How?’
Less expense
You can save all the expenditure that usually happens on dates and anniversary gifts (You can spend it on yourself though). And do we need to mention the pocket burning phone bills? And almost every breakup we end up wondering what stupid talks we had for two to three hours? No, seriously! Hadn’t it been more feasible if we had met and that conversation for an hour. Think about it? So when you are single that expenditure will turn into saving or productive expenditure on yourself.
Planning things? What’s that!
Isn’t it irritating when you have to plan about everything in advance? Why not just get off from bed and go to any place you want! Being in relationship you can barely get this freedom of doing things impromptu; everything needs to be planned well in hand to avoid any last moment issues. But for those of you who love doing things when they feel like are better off single.
Day and night out with friends
Want to spend the whole day with your friends? Go for it because you probably wouldn’t have any plans and nobody will question your decision or get angry. Hello, singlehood! Spend as much time as you want to spend with your friends or for that matter make new friends, ain’t anybody questioning you. Because your time is your own and you are not answerable to anyone.
A break from looking your best always
Okay, so, all of us like dressing up at times and looking your best but tell us, if it isn’t more comforting to roam around in loose t-shirts and pajamas? Nobody likes to be all the time decked up in a three piece suit or a cocktail dress with stilettos and make up on point. Even celebrities feel most comfortable in loose clothes. But when you are in relationship you not only have to look good for yourself but also for the person you are dating. Spare yourself from that pain, stay single.
Untidy room? No problem!
Is your room always a heap of all the things you have and if municipality had a chance to enter room it will require them the whole day for separating junk from good stuff? (Just kidding) But if you like it unkempt and hate cleaning it every now and then, it’s actually no issue when you are single. Relationship won’t let you enjoy that freedom because when your special someone comes to meet you would you really want them to find the chair overloaded with clothes that should have gone for cleaning last week?
Be your own king or queen
It’s your life and you should be the king or queen of it but without an iota of guilt. When we fall for someone we voluntarily or involuntarily end up making the person enter our priority list which clearly means you can’t see them hurt. So it’s either their happiness or your choices and it’s really very difficult to choose one because you need the best of both worlds. But when you are single it’s completely okay to ruler of your life.
Love sure is a beautiful thing but that doesn’t mean you should sacrifice your life. Stay single and rather than falling in love with someone else, fall in love with yourself instead.
